What emotions do I have most often?
How do I display those emotions?
What are my thoughts towards myself?
What are my thoughts about others around me?
How do I make others feel when they are around me?
Am I constantly at odds with those around me?
Answering these self-exploratory questions will help you identify those areas that may be problematic. Identifying problematic areas in your life will open the door to begin the process of change---it starts with YOU.